Can You Love Your Body But Want To Change It?

love your body Sep 12, 2017

As a fitness professional, I am well aware of the growing numbers of women and men who are dissatisfied with their bodies.

They constantly punish themselves physically and mentally by trying to whip themselves into shape. Believing that their beauty and happiness is dependent on being a specific size; they struggle to accept the skin they are in.

How can you love your body but want to change it? Let these 25 reasons bring compassion and understanding to changing your body because you love it, not because you hate it.

#1.    Realize that you will always be a work in progress; that your growth physically, mentally and spiritually will never be done.

#2.    By feeding your body good food and feeding your mind good thoughts you can love yourself into well-being.

#3.    The problem isn’t your body, it’s what you think of it. Love the person you’ve become. Be your own kind of beautiful.

#4.    If asked to list all the things you love, how long would it take for you to name yourself?

#5.    It’s fine to admire someone else’s beauty, just don’t question your own. Wishing to be someone else is a waste of the person you already are.

#6.    If you want to change your body, you must first change your mind. Begin by acknowledging you are perfect exactly as you are. Don’t be the reason you don’t succeed.

#7.    You can be both a masterpiece and a work in progress at the same time. Learn to love your body through its time of growth; as a human being your physical and mental makeup is forever transforming.

#8.    Love the body you already have, instead of the idea of what you want it to be. Don’t wait until you reach your goals to appreciate your true beauty.

#9.    Your body is an incredible miracle that deserves love and respect. Hating it won’t make you thin and being thin won’t make you stop hating your body.

#10.  Work out because you love your body, not because you can’t stand it. Training your body because you love it versus training your body because you hate it will yield very different results.

#11.  If you want to change your body, do it only for yourself. Look for those who will love you because of your beautiful soul more than your physical being.

#12.  Everything about you will become beautiful when you stop looking for flaws. Respect your body like it belongs to someone you love.

#13.  You can work, sweat, and starve yourself as much as you want but your body is capable of only so much change. The size of your hips have nothing to do with your self-worth.

#14.  Be happy with what you have while you’re busy going after what you want. It’s important to love every bit of who you are as you navigate your way to health and wellness.

#15.  Your body is capable of some pretty impressive feats. It’s time that you challenge it and admire its accomplishments. The only limits you have are the limits you impose on yourself.

#16.  When you change your perception, you can begin to rewrite the chemistry of your body. Take all of the negative energy you put towards hating your body and channel it into positive energy. You will be amazed by the results.

#17.  You have always been beautiful. Now you’re choosing to be healthier, fitter, faster, stronger and even more fabulous that you were before.

#18.  While there’s nothing wrong with your body, there’s a lot wrong with the messages you’re bombarded with every day. Make peace with the person you see in the mirror and watch your reflection change.

#19.  Let go of the things you can’t change and focus your attention on the things that you can. Ask for what it is that you want and be prepared to receive it.

#20.  Embrace and love your body; teach your mind to respect it. It is the most incredible thing you will ever own.

#21.  Give yourself permission to focus on what you like about yourself; always speak and think kindly about yourself. Your spirit needs your love and approval.

#22.  Not one drop of your self-worth should depend on anyone else’s acceptance of you. Because it’s impossible to satisfy everyone, I suggest you stop trying.

#23.  While you are in the process of trying to change your body you need to be content with where you are at any given moment. If you can’t be happy where you are now, you won’t ever be happy with yourself.

#24.  Health is a relationship between you and your body. Fall in love with taking care of yourself mind, body, and spirit.

#25.  Accepting your body is a radical act of taking back your power. Don’t allow your mind to bully your body into believing otherwise.

No matter what road you choose in your journey to self-love and appreciation realize that it’s about doing what feels right to you.

Don’t be motivated to make changes because of the pressures of societal norms. Instead, be driven to take care of your body because it’s the only place you have to live.

Can you love your body but want to change it? Absolutely, positively, without a doubt you can. Begin right now by simply being yourself. Everyone else is taken.

I am a wellness coach and master yoga instructor. If you would like to learn more about taking care of and loving your body where you are right now, contact me today. Follow me on Facebook for your daily dose of health and wellness.


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